Episode 105

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3rd Jul 2023

How to Embrace Spontaneity, Bust Out of a Rut, and Make Deposits in Your Confidence Account | E105 Les Alfred

Do you ever feel like you’re living in Groundhog Day where the events yesterday, feel like today, and you’re probably going to have those same feelings tomorrow? The weeks are moving fast yet you don’t feel like much is changing?

If this is the case you might be in a rut. If I’m being honest, I’m coming out of a period of my life where I’ve felt like I’ve been in a rut. I’ve had my head down, hard at work. I’m really satisfied with most of the elements of my life right now but I have this underlying feeling of unease. I don’t need to blow anything up but I’ve been looking for some change.


Luckily, Les Alfred came into my life at the right time. This conversation gave me some ideas for embracing more spontaneity, mixing up routines, and busting out of my rut. Implementing her practical advice has me feeling like I’m headed in the right direction now.


Les is the creator and host behind the wildly popular podcast, Balanced Black Girl where she covers various aspects of wellness with approachability and care.


I’ll be honest, I became a bit of a superfan after binging her show in preparation for this conversation and one of my favorite series she did was all about leveling up. The first half of this conversation we talk about practical tips for busting out of a rut but as we enter the second half of the episode, we talk about so many implementable concepts like time audits, your confidence account, and creating a brag file. I think all 3 of these concepts will level up your career so stick around until the end.


Speaking up that, hit the follow button on your podcast player right now. We are finishing up the managing the things at work series next week with an episode about conquering your to-do and we are going to follow that up with a series on creative ways to expand your professional network. So if that sounds like content that you need right now, hit the follow button so you don’t miss out.


I hope you enjoy my conversation with…the Leo, yogi, and the creator of Balanced Black Girl…Les Alfred.


Key Takeaways:

  • Why social relationships are harder to control than other elements of your wellness
  • How to embrace more spontaneity as a regimented person
  • How to bust out of a rut by making small changes to your routine
  • Creating a list of scary goals
  • The lethal combo of having a 9 to 5 and being a small business owner
  • How to perform a time audit
  • How cutting things from your routine can be a great thing
  • The importance of being hard to manipulate
  • Why confidence isn’t a feeling but an action
  • How to make deposits in your confidence account
  • The importance of creating a brag file at work


More of Les:

Balanced Black Girl Podcast: https://www.balancedblackgirl.com/podcast


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