Episode 107

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17th Jul 2023

Sick of Your Clothes? Find Your Personal Style, Identity and Confidence | E107 Parke Ballantine

I’ve never felt like I’ve had style. Honestly, I’ve always felt a little intimidated and lost when it comes to fashion.

With that in mind, I didn’t put a lot of emphasis on it. I opted for safe and affordable options versus clothes that I felt comfortable and confident in. I don’t think that’s entirely the wrong perspective. Personal style isn’t something that everyone cares about but I do want to make a case for it.


For better or worse, your outward appearance does say something about you. It impacts first expressions and is an extension of your personality. Most importantly, it impacts how you feel about yourself. The right piece of clothes at the right moment can help me break out of my shyness, feel more confident, and channel the energy I want to display.


All of this is especially true when it comes to dressing for work, a place where first impressions, outward appearance, charisma, and confidence play a huge part in success and career growth.


So let’s say you decided this is important and you want to put some focus on it, how do you go about finding your personal style? 


Well, I don’t have the answer for you but Parke Ballantine does. They are a creative director, fashion stylist, and model. I met Parke through my girlfriend Gaby after they did a stunning photoshoot together and luckily they were nice enough to share some fashion advice with us.


In this conversation, we talk about how to get started if you just aren’t sure what your personal style is. Parke shares styling tips like the rule of thirds, how to incorporate color, and how to be fashion-forward when it’s hot outside. We also have an important conversation about the balance of sustainability and affordability.


Key Takeaways:

  • Where to start if you aren’t sure what your personal style is
  • Applying the rule of thirds to fashion
  • How to incorporate color into your wardrobe
  • How to use accessories as your statement pieces
  • How to be fashion-forward in the summer heat
  • Balancing sustainability, affordability, and being fashion-forward
  • Where to donate or swap your clothes
  • The power of people


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